They say you should never look too far in to the future. I don't know whether they say this to prevent disappointment, as it will never look like you thought it would? Perhaps more so, it is to remind you to remain present, live in the moment and enjoy what you've got whilst you've got it. I certainly did not expect my future to include a heart condition and a defibrillator in my chest. Especially only 2 years into my marriage. I was excited about our many adventures still